My wife is ESTJ and I am INFP, how can I keep her from considering me as lazy? - doers and dreamers guide 2010
She is a person of action, and I'm a dreamer, and bugs the hell out of him.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Doers And Dreamers Guide 2010 My Wife Is ESTJ And I Am INFP, How Can I Keep Her From Considering Me As Lazy?
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Relationships are funny things. :)
You have conflicting settings, but not against - after all, did win something for others. I bet you both are complementary in many cases.
But yes, I could see how a strenuous effort INFP ESTJ would be a dream - and vice versa .......
It is interesting that you suggest to do something about their perception of you as lazy, change ... and that a great deal about his willingness to compromise in the relationship, which is cool, says ...
I would say:
* Speaking of his days, especially when you are busy. You are not busy all the time - working time - but his days are probably very busy busy. She refers to her pace.
* Any things for them before they can start working. You will appreciate the efforts and enjoy (probably) too. Do not go to the sea, of course.
* Do not take responsibility for what he thinks - no friction in any relationship, andDifferences, the things interesting. ENTJ If so, could not function. This is especially important. NF tend to take responsibility for the perception of others about them.
If you are lazy, then you need to do more. LOL But the perception of laziness (do most of the dream) is something else, and it is expected that is a INFP.
Take care! :)
Let him read the description of an INFP. Speak with your life and requires both dreamers. People are different in their temperament. That's the Way It's Meant to be. In marriage, I need a partner who is a clone of me. I need a supplement. But if they do not appreciate the difference, or people who are different from you, you have your work ahead of you. A good idea is to give a little. Just because you are an INFP, does not mean that you should stay the whole time. A little effort on your part could be for a happy marriage
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